Pop culture frequently uses the phrase “Diamonds are a girl’s best friend,” especially in songs like Marilyn Monroe’s performance in the film “Gentlemen Prefer Blondes.” This concept which represents romance and luxury has become ingrained in our culture.

The truth is nuanced – this ‘catchphrase’ that is thrown around might be more of a marketing ploy than an accurate representation of women’s values.

“Diamonds are a pretty accessory but that’s all they are, they aren’t a replacement for friendship,” Kristen Savage ’26 said.

This notion that diamonds, the sparkly sidekick to romantic evenings, are a necessary proclamation of love or friendship is based on outdated gender stereotypes and marketing strategies.

Is the shiny, overpriced chunk of carbon really the unshatterable companion it’s cracked up to be? Or have we been sold a truth that does not hold up well under pressure?

“After losing a dance competition my bedazzled costume and jewelry is tossed aside without a second thought, because it’s my friends and teammates who are there for me to hold me up,” Niamh Reagan ’26 said.

A diamond is about as loyal as a group chat that’s left you on read for a week. Sure it catches your eye because it’s dazzling at first, but when times get rough – like when you accidentally lose it in the water like Kim K or drop it in cake batter –it can prove to be surprisingly unhelpful.

“A real best friend shows up with Cup Noodles and Airhead Extremes when you’re down and out,” Lydia Moy ’26 said.

True friends are there for you in your messiest moment.

Carole King put it best when she said “Winter, spring, summer, or fall all you have to do is call and I’ll be there.”

Diamonds on the other hand are only there when you’re all dolled up with a fabulous outfit and your hair professionally styled.